When Wendy Dolber and her late husband, Howie Brown, spent peaceful afternoons on the Ashokan Reservoir with their dog Sophie, she never imagined that Howie’s memory would one day become intertwined with the Ashokan Center’s mission of inspiring learning and building community through music, nature, and art. Yet today, through the Howie Brown Memorial Fund, Wendy has created a lasting legacy that continues to touch countless lives.
The fund, now in its third year of support, helps sustain Ashokan’s Pay It Forward scholarships — a program that makes it possible for more children and adults to experience the joy of music and the power of community, regardless of financial circumstance.
Wendy’s connection to Ashokan began through a friend of Howie’s, longtime Ashokan supporter and musician Vinnie Martucci. After Howie’s passing, Vinnie helped Wendy find new homes for his musical equipment and introduced her to the Ashokan Center’s work.
“I told Vinnie I was looking for places to support financially through Howie’s savings,” Wendy recalls. “He told me about the wonderful programs there.”
What started as a gesture of remembrance soon grew into a meaningful partnership.
“I love the programs and the aura of the physical environment,” she says. “But most of all I keep giving because of the strong connection that Sara Trapani, along with Jay and Molly, has fostered over the years. Our contributions have been met with such joy and gratitude and showcased in such a heartwarming and respectful way. I feel that I have a real relationship with Ashokan — where I am invited to participate and be part of a wonderful group of people.”
For Wendy, the mission of the Howie Brown Memorial Fund perfectly reflects both her values and Howie’s spirit. “I love programs that encourage children to fearlessly take in the world around them, and to bring people together in music,” she says.
Although Howie carefully saved throughout his life to ensure stability for the future, Wendy believes he would be delighted by the way his legacy is being carried forward. “I don’t think he ever imagined that this is the kind of thing I would be doing with his money,” she shares. “But I know he would absolutely love it.”
Through Sara Trapani, Ashokan’s Development Director, Wendy stays connected to the impact her generosity creates — seeing how her support helps others experience the same kind of community and joy that once brought Howie happiness.
“This kind of giving is truly a generative thing,” Wendy reflects. “It’s not just about money. It’s a living, breathing relationship with what was, what is, and what will be.”
Even as the original funds from Howie’s estate are gradually used to nurture these programs, Wendy’s commitment continues. She has included a bequest to Ashokan in her own will, ensuring that the fund — and the love behind it — will continue to make a difference for years to come.
“When Howie and I were sitting in his boat on the Ashokan Reservoir, we never dreamed that someday I would be so involved with The Center,” she says. “I’m grateful for the opportunity.”
Through Wendy’s generosity and Howie’s enduring spirit, the Ashokan Center’s work continues to ripple outward — inspiring connection, compassion, and creativity in all who gather here.